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How to get clarity about anything  


1.   WHO + WHAT + WHY + HOW = SUCCESS = 100%

2.   WHO + WHAT + WHY = CLARITY = 75%

3.    CLARITY + HOW = SUCCESS = 100%











Hi! It's great to meet you!

I am Dr. Onyeka Abengowe, Entrepreneur, Clarity Ambassador, and Inspirational Speaker.

I help women and girls get clarity for impactful personal and professional transformation.  


 After a 20-year healthcare career in nuclear medicine imaging and consulting, figuring out my next chapter felt like searching for a needle in a haystack. I came across many "expert" advice and "recipes" for personal clarity, only to leave me more confused than clear. Yes, there were many "Tips", but these "Expert Tips" did not provide clear guidance or tools for identifying MY next chapter. They were rich with HOW TO DO THINGS, but lacking in HOW TO IDENTIFY "THE THING" for me, so I can actually focus on learning how to do "MY THING" and not "EVERYBODY'S THING."


I wasn't just looking for how to do things. I was looking for how to be successful in whatever I chose to do next. The more I read about how to do all these different things, the more confused I became about which is FOR ME. Nothing made sense until I began to break down what success looks like for me and the fact that to be successful, I had to find MY UNIQUE VOICE AND SPACE. How do I identify this space without first understanding WHO I am NOW, WHAT I want, and WHY I want it? 


This realization led me to define success as a 4-piece pie composed of WHO, WHY, WHAT, and HOW, with each piece of the pie making up 25%. The three Ws - WHO, WHY, and WHAT- comprise the CLARITY piece, which is 75%, while the "HOW" is only 25%. This is the core principle behind The Clarity Success Formula™ that transformed my life and helped me find my purpose in helping midlife women turn their "midlife crisis" into midlife clarity and empower them to integrate their knowledge, skills, and life experiences to create an impactful and fulfilling next chapter. 


When you have clarity, you have 75% of what you need to succeed. The odds are already in your favor! If you skip clarity and jump to the HOW, you’re chasing after 25%! What are the odds of succeeding with 75% gone? Want to get clarity to succeed in anything you do?

Know WHO you are NOW, WHAT you want, and WHY you want it.



Clarity For Personal and Career Decisions 

Having gone through a few career transitions, I can relate to the confusion and overwhelming feeling of making new career choices, especially in mid to late-career years. Clarity is an essential component of a successful life and career transition. It is common for people to go into careers their parents, peers, or authority figures recommend. Other times, life-altering events force people to rethink their lifestyle and ultimately decide they need a change.


The Covid-19 pandemic has forced people to change in many ways. For many, this has been a time of reflection and reevaluation of what really matters to them and how they want to live their lives going forward. It is not always about money. Sometimes, it's more about finding joy and fulfillment in whatever we choose to do.  


Clarity To Recognize And Embrace A New Season  


Another reason people want change is when it's a new season in their life - that dreaded "midlife crisis," a new relationship, marriage, or childbirth. When the former season has run its course, things start changing in our "world." While some experience mild changes in habits, interests, and emotional temperament, others experience a drastic shift from "whom they used to be" to "an unfamiliar stranger."


Resisting change and trying to "BE YOURSELF AGAIN" can be frustrating and mischaracterized if not handled appropriately. Recognizing it for what it is, empowers you to cease the "OPPORTUNITY" to become familiar with the "NEW YOU," reinvent yourself, and create the next chapter meant just for you. Most importantly, I hope you discover and follow your NEW path. I have thoughtfully compiled some FREE RESOURCES to help you birth your dream next chapter and THE TOOLS to start creating it!

Go ahead! The Universe is on your side, and I am rooting for you!!

The success pie
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